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Turning the Page: A Year-End Reflection

Turning the Page: A Year-End Reflection

by Lori Stevic-Rust, PhD ABPP | Dec 28, 2025 | Personal Reflections, Self-Discovery

Turning the Page If reflection marks anything, it marks our responsibility. Not the kind that demands resolutions or reinvention—but the quieter responsibility of paying attention. I’ve been thinking a lot lately about why the end of a year pulls us in this way. We...
Traveling Inward: Learning to Carry What You Can’t Leave Behind

Traveling Inward: Learning to Carry What You Can’t Leave Behind

by Lori Stevic-Rust, PhD ABPP | Apr 27, 2025 | Caregiving, Personal Reflections, Self-Discovery

Sometimes We Must Go Inward to Heal Outward   Traveling inward is how I’ve been spending my time these days – almost as if my mind has slipped into a year-in-review mode, even though it’s only April. Psychologically, we tend to engage in year-end reviews to...
Why the Extremes Are Draining Women–How the Middle Way Leads to Balance and Strength

Why the Extremes Are Draining Women–How the Middle Way Leads to Balance and Strength

by Lori Stevic-Rust, PhD ABPP | Feb 16, 2025 | Self-Discovery, Women Entrepreneurs, Women's Empowerment

So, Madonna, Barack Obama, Bill Gates, Abraham Lincoln, and I walk into a bar. Why are we hanging out together? Because we are all middle children. Of course, when we walked in, Obama smoothed over a bar fight, Lincoln gave an epic speech about unity, Gates calculated...
Overcoming Despair: 5 Unexpected Strategies to Build Resilience

Overcoming Despair: 5 Unexpected Strategies to Build Resilience

by Lori Stevic-Rust, PhD ABPP | Feb 2, 2025 | Holistic Health, Personal Reflections, Self-Discovery

I feel like Punxsutawney Phil—climbing out of my dark hole to reluctantly check on what is to come. Will there be more of the same, or is there a prediction of better days ahead? Okay, maybe that’s a bit melodramatic, but my family hails from Punxsutawney, so we feel...
Mastering Uncertainty: How to Protect Your Brain and Thrive in 2025

Mastering Uncertainty: How to Protect Your Brain and Thrive in 2025

by Lori Stevic-Rust, PhD ABPP | Dec 26, 2024 | Entrepreneurs, Personal Reflections, Self-Discovery

Stress. The buzzword dominates every conversation about mental health, productivity, and even aging. We’ve all heard it: “Stress will kill you.” And yes, chronic stress isn’t doing anyone any favors—it’s linked to a laundry list of issues, from heart...
How Family Traditions Build Resilience and Shape Identity

How Family Traditions Build Resilience and Shape Identity

by Lori Stevic-Rust, PhD ABPP | Dec 15, 2024 | Generational Relationships, Personal Reflections, Self-Discovery

Family Traditions Build Resilience Family traditions are more than rituals—they tie and connect us to our roots, shaping our identity and creating a sense of belonging. For me, this truth lives in my great-grandmother’s apron. After six generations, the pink roses...
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“I really wish we could move away from asking surv “I really wish we could move away from asking survivors why they didn’t tell and start asking what made it so difficult or unsafe for them to speak up.” Donisha Greene, Senior Director of Strategic Communications at Cleveland Rape Crisis Center
The ad targeted Dr. Amy Acton. But other survivors The ad targeted Dr. Amy Acton. But other survivors were listening, too.

In this clip, I share the backstory of Vivek Ramaswamy’s attack ad, and Donisha Greene of Cleveland Rape Crisis Center reminds us why our words matter.

Tune in to Becoming Real with Dr. Lori for our full conversation.
What are we willing to excuse in the name of winni What are we willing to excuse in the name of winning—and what does that tell survivors about whether they matter?

The attack ad targeting Dr. Amy Acton reaches far beyond one candidate. Other survivors are listening.

In my new episode, Donisha Greene from Cleveland Rape Crisis Center joins me to talk about the fear of not being believed and what meaningful support looks like.

Listen to Becoming Real with Dr. Lori. Link in bio.
What an afternoon we had on Sunday! And yes, the r What an afternoon we had on Sunday! And yes, the red shoes showed up! ❤️

Thank you to everyone who came out to celebrate 10 years of Put On Your Big-Girl Shoes and the relaunch of Nana’s Tribe Foundation.

I’ve started listening to the courage stories you recorded and hearing more about what you talked about around your tables. I wish I could have pulled up a chair at every one.

Rena Finder gave us so much to consider about what it means to hear someone’s story—and what we do next. Dr. Deborah Plummer and I talked about belonging, the assumptions we make, and how we get to know one another beyond those assumptions.

Then you brought your own experiences into the conversation. That’s what I hoped this afternoon would make room for.

Here’s a look back at some of our time together. I hope it makes you smile and reminds you to ask: Who needs your courage today?

I’d love to keep talking with you. On Becoming Real with Dr. Lori, we explore our health, our relationships, and the courage it takes to be ourselves.

Join my email list, and let’s keep the REAL conversation going.

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Today, I want to be making a post about the beauti Today, I want to be making a post about the beautiful sun, excitement about our event on Sunday or anything other than this—-

But  silence feels worse 

As a psychologist, I find Vivek Ramaswamy political attack deeply disturbing. Not just because of the cruelty directed at a survivor, but because of the message it sends to every survivor of childhood abuse.

Imagine surviving years of trauma, finding the courage to tell your story, and then watching an estranged family member who abused you and courts had to remove  you as a child for your protection, then the abuser appears in a political ad calling you a liar.

For so many survivors, being disbelieved, silenced, and blamed is part of the trauma itself. To exploit that pain for political gain is beyond cruel.

This isn’t about being a Democrat or Republican. It’s about basic human decency.

Shame on those who believe exploiting childhood trauma is an acceptable path to political power.

This is a revealing look at moral character, empathy, and judgment. And we should expect far better from anyone seeking to lead us or serve in a position of power.

Vivek Ramaswamy and JD Vance, can the pursuit of power really justify this level of moral compromise? 

We deserve better !

Amy Acton, I am sorry.
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Lori Stevic-Rust, PhD ABPP is a clinical health psychologist, TV consultant, award-winning keynote speaker, author, and strong advocate for women. She offers programs, courses, coaching, and books designed to empower women to overcome chronic self-doubt, anxiety, and fear. Her mission is to help women thrive in their health, businesses, and relationships by living their authentic, REAL lives.

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